FAILING WHEN WE WIN:  OK, so I didn't realize there was an organized "war on the young"--more of an undeclared kinetic military action, perhaps.  But, yeah, it's not one we want to win.  And, I'll say it, we ideally want those kids to be born into stable, married couples (and, it should go without saying, the biological parents being married to each other whenever possible).  The undeclared war on marriage is also a war on the young.